Monday, 17 August 2009

Last days

Tomorrow, Auro and I are flying to Osaka, where Remo (hopefully) will be waiting for us! Here are some pictures of the last days in Begijnendijk.
Auro has been trying to skip his morning nap, but sometimes it is just stronger than himself ;-)
Auro loves taking all of his toys out of the bag and throwing them around. And in the end he still wants a mobile phone or some keys to play with...Auro on his uncle's shoulders... for sure the highest place he has ever sat!

Wednesday, 12 August 2009

My mother

Two days before going back to Belgium, more precisely on Monday evening, we finally did what we came here to do: we parted with the last physical remains of my mother. As she had requested more than once, we enthrusted part of her ashes to the sea in Turkey which she was so fond of. My mother, who was the reason for many more things in my life than just me coming to Turkey this time, now has a final resting place from where she can gaze at the rocky coast of Kiris and keep an eye on her apartment that had become her favourite place over the last couple of years!

Sunday, 9 August 2009

Numbers

The fact that we are relaxing in Turkey, does not mean that Auro's physical and mental development has taken a break. On the contrary! Here are some numbers.
* Auro's weight (measured just before we came to Turkey): 8900 grams
* Auro's height (also measured just before Turkey): 75 cm
* number of breastfeedings in a day: 2 (we recently replaced the afternoon-milk with some fruit and/or a cookie)
* number of 'frietjes' (=French fries/chips/pommes frites) Auro has refused to eat so far: 0 (He definitely IS Belgian!)
* number of ready-made babyfood Auro opens his mouth for: 1 (couscous with vegetables... everything else needs to be fresh!)
* number of shiny white (and amazingly sharp!) little teeth: 7 (number 7 saw the light right here in Turkey)
* number of (airplane) flights Auro has been on in his life: 18
* number of countries our little globetrotter has 'visited' so far: 8 (Belgium, Italy, Austria, China, Japan, Hong Kong, Macau and Turkey)

Gözleme

The other day, my father needed to catch up on some lost sleep, so tante Els, Auro and I took the car and went out for lunch. We drove to a nearby restaurant where we ate on of my favourite Turkish dishes:gözleme. Gözleme is a hand made and hand rolled pastry, filled with feta cheese, potatoes or spinach (these are the 3 most common fillings), and then cooked over a griddle. When the gozleme is cooked, little brown round eye-shaped spots appear on the pastry and this is how the origin of the name for the dish is explained: 'göz' apparently means 'eye' in Turkish.

Thursday, 6 August 2009

Adrasan

Two days ago, my father, Els, Auro and I took the rental car and drove to Adrasan (about one hour to the west of Kiris). Whereas the beach here in Kiris consists of little (and sometimes bigger) pebbles, Adrasan has a little inlet with an almost sandy beach. Also, to walk into the sea requires less of an acrobatic effort in Adrasan, as the beach doesn't immediately drop from ankle-shallow to waist-deep (though this does occassionally provide some amusing and entertaining sights!). Anyway, after a good (and cheap!) lunch, we swam in the sea, had a walk in the excrutiating heat (so Auro could take a nap in his stroller), had another refreshing swim and finally went to a nice restaurant on the river (extra nice because it's a place where my mother has not been forgotten). Amazing how the heat disappears near a river under the cover of green trees! A great place to end a surprisingly tiring day.

Saturday, 1 August 2009

Neighbours

Last Friday (July 24), my father, Auro and I took the plane from Brussels to Antalya in Turkey. We are staying in my mother's favourite place in Kiris. Since we've arrived here, we haven't really done anything noteworthy. Except for swimming, sunbathing, going to the market, drinking and eating of course! And always in good company! (see picture of my father drinking the local beer in company of our Belgian neighbours)

Tuesday, 21 July 2009

the Dutch

Today, the 21st of July, is a national holiday in Belgium. Actually it is THE national holiday of Belgium. On July 21, 1831, Leopold I took the oath as king and Belgium officially became an independent country. All of this happened after the Belgian revolution, during which the Belgians declared their independence from the Dutch.
Yesterday, and this has of course nothing to do with the above, my good friend Ilona came from Holland to pay us a visit. We hadn't seen each other in over a year and we had some catching up to do. We sat in the garden the whole afternoon, where Ilona became best friends with the dog (Kazan kept bringing her pears from the garden, which she kept throwing away and he kept coming back with new ones). Also Auro was completely charmed by my Dutch friend... or was it by the big leather (and therefore extremely chewable) belt she was wearing?

Friday, 17 July 2009

Sand

The day Auro turned 10 months, my friend Pascale picked us up with her car and drove us all the way to the Belgian coast (for Belgian standards 2 hours is a very long drive!). The coastal town of Blankenberge is very well known among Belgians and on a hot sunny day the beach is ususally packed with people. Luckily it wasn't that hot, nor that sunny, so we could enjoy the sandy beach to our heart's content. Especially Auro was impressed with the 'sandiness' of the white sand, because he wouldn't stop touching it. He took some in his little fists, then let it slip through his fingers, only to pick up some more. Of course there was also the occasional sand-tasting going on, but I think he quickly understood that sand is not meant to be eaten. Smart little boy!
To make our sandy day complete, we als
o paid a visit to the sand sculptures festival, which is held every year in the dunes of Blankenberge (11 Euros!). This year the theme is 'Pete Pirate and the Barnacle Bill', so lots of pirate ships, treasures, sea monsters and ... Michael Jackson!

Thursday, 16 July 2009

Last minute

Tomorrow, Auro will be 10 months old, but today, while he is still 9 months old, his 6th tooth came through! And I can assure you this one is just as sharp as the other five.Two teeth on the bottom and four on the top: his mouth is in balance again... at least for now ;-)

Monday, 6 July 2009

Socializing

Over the past couple of days Auro has been confronted with many new people. The whole family gathered here for a barbecue, friends came to visit and we went to visit friends. He has been surrounded by people who, for almost 5 months, have been looking forward to seeing him. Unfortunately almost none of those people have been able to hold him without setting of a siren of loud and persistent crying, audible probably even to his father who is on the other side of the world in Japan!
Auro has always been a bit of a mother's boy, but from the moment we have arrived here in Belgium it seems he has completely abandoned the idea of ever socializing with people who are not his 'mama', his 'papa' or (luckily) his 'opa'. To be quite honnest, I don't know how to help him feel more relaxed with other people, but I'm afraid I can't force it much. I suppose I will just have to trust Auro and give him the time he needs to master his social skills...

Friday, 3 July 2009

Discoveries

Today, I made two discoveries.
The first one was this morning when I inspected Auro's mouth (which I started doing regularly since his gum turned white) and saw that 'tooth number 5' had decided to come out! Congratulations, Auro! Five down, fifteen to go!
The second dicovery came later in the afternoon and I can't really take credit for it since it wasn't me, but Els (my brother's girlfriend) who made it. She discovered that we have a tree in our garden that bears cherries. At least we think that's what they are. They look a little different from the ones we are used to, but they have the same sweet taste. My parents bought this house when my mother was pregnant with me, so I actually grew up here, but I never noticed that we had a cherry tree. What a strange but amazing discovery, wouldn't you say?

Monday, 29 June 2009

Number 4

Yesterday Auro woke up with one more tooth! He now has 2 on the bottom and 2 on the top. High time to try that toothbrush that's been sitting in the diaper bag since Auro was 4 months old!
I was expecting a lot of resistance when I put the tooth brush in his mouth and (very gently) rubbed his new teeth with it,but he rather seemed to enjoy it. The taste of the baby toothpaste almost made him change his mind, but when I let go of the toothbrush, he happily took over and chewed on it for another 5 minutes! He cried when I took it away...

Saturday, 27 June 2009

Mushroom

And the good weather continues...
Today, my father and I went out to buy this 'mushroom baby pool' (complete with little inflatable mushrooms and butterflies!) .It was on sale for 10 euros in a shop closeby. Auro is not a big fan yet, but maybe he will be tomorrow when we try it again without all those onlookers ;-)

Friday, 26 June 2009

Tropics

Everybody tells me that I brought good weather with me from China (even though it was raining a lot in Changchun when I left). I am indeed lucky to have so many sunny days since my arrival here. Belgium is not exactly famous for it's tropical temperatures and the weather in summer, I believe, belongs to the most unpredictable in the world.
Anyway, yesterday and also today, it's hot, hot, hot! Great chance for Auro to play outside! This morning I've prepared his little play-corner (plastice sheet with a blanket on top) on the lawn, from where he can see the fountain sprouting water in the pond, Kazan (the dog) running after his ball and us walking in and out of the house! And if that doesn't keep him entertained, there is always the mountain of toys on his blanket!

Thursday, 25 June 2009

Jetlag

We have been in Belgium for 6 days now and I think Auro is finally over his jetlag. The flight from Beijing to Brussels was long and Auro didn't sleep very well. He woke up screaming almost every 30 minutes, so by the time we arrived in Belgium, both Auro and I (I breastfed him maybe 10 times!) were pretty exhausted. The time difference between China and Belgium (6 hours) made it extra difficult to recover from the trip, but after a couple of 'irregular' nights, Auro is himself again.
After 2 days of nonstop whining and crying, however, I caved and went out to buy him a baby walker. It's just like the one he has (and loves) in China, but a bit more sophisticated with lots of buttons to push and rings to pull. Now, Auro is 'independent' again and has a whole house (and garden) to explore. Also, a friend of mine lent me some extra toys that belonged to her boys, so Auro really shouldn't get bored! After 4 days of seeing Auro 'unhappy', I'm relieved to have him smiling, talking and (unfortunately also) screaming again!!